Author: Elli

  • It’s Not Goodbye, It’s See You Later: Leaving My Chosen Family

    As I sit in my almost empty house, the reality of saying ‘see you later’ to the friends I’ve made over the past 30 years is hitting me. Leaving the people who have supported and loved me through everything is harder than I expected, but I know our paths will…

  • To the Naysayers: A Reflection on Following My Own Path

    I’ve heard it all. “Are you sure this is the right decision?” “What if it doesn’t work out?” “But aren’t you worried about leaving everything behind?” These are the questions I’ve been asked repeatedly since I decided to leave my stable, comfortable life and step into something unknown. And while…

  • Why Shaking Things Up Is Essential for Growth and the Soul

    Changing things up—whether it’s changing careers, moving to a new city, or simply shifting our mindset—forces us to confront the parts of ourselves that need attention. It’s not always easy, and it’s definitely not always comfortable. But it’s in those moments of discomfort that we learn the most about who…

  • Letting Go: The Emotional Journey Behind Purging My Possessions

    As I wrap up my yard sale, I reflect on why letting go of things is so difficult. Whether it’s a scarcity mindset or emotional attachments, the act of purging has been unexpectedly freeing.

  • Facing Anxiety During Major Life Changes: How to Embrace the Fear and Move Forward

    Change can be exhilarating, but it also brings anxiety and uncertainty. In this post, I share my experience of facing the anxiety of major life changes and how we can embrace it instead of letting it hold us back.

  • Why It Is Hard to Choose Yourself: Breaking Free from a Lifetime of CPTSD

    After a lifetime of abuse and CPTSD, learning to choose yourself can feel terrifying and guilt-inducing. This post explores the psychology behind reclaiming your autonomy and why putting your own needs first is essential for healing.

  • Sometimes it Takes a Little Crazy to Chase the Life You’ve Always Dreamed Of

    Sometimes, achieving the life you’ve always dreamed of takes stepping out of your comfort zone and embracing a little bit of crazy. Ask yourself: Are you living a life full of joy? If not, maybe it’s time to make a change.

  • A Soul-full Expedition: What I’m Hoping to Find on the Journey

    As I embark on this journey of self-rediscovery, I’m searching for more than just new places—I’m searching for joy, purpose, and the freedom to truly be myself. It’s about letting go of fear, reconnecting with who I am, and finding meaning in every moment, no matter how small.

  • Burnt Out and Ready for a New Path: Why I Needed a Sabbatical to Rediscover My Purpose

    After years of burnout, I’m taking a sabbatical to reconnect with myself through adventures, photography, and time with loved ones. I may not know exactly what’s next, but I’m trusting that this break will help me find a renewed sense of purpose.

  • The Journey to Choosing Myself: Therapy, Healing, and Finding Joy in a New Path

    Through therapy, healing from past abuse, and rediscovering joy in traveling, photography, and nature, I realized I wasn’t finding fulfillment at work or in my current environment. This is my journey to choosing myself, finding my true community, and embracing a new path.