Second Bloom Adventures

Author: Elli

  • Why Gifting Yourself the Permission to Rest is Necessary

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    Elli

    “Rest is not a luxury—it’s a necessity. We need to give ourselves permission to rest, not because we’ve earned it, but because we are worthy of it. Learn why rest is essential for your physical, emotional, and mental well-being.

  • Goodbyes, New Beginnings, and Embracing the Unknown

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    Elli

    As I say my goodbyes and prepare for a new journey, I reflect on the sadness of leaving friends behind and the excitement of reigniting my passion for writing, photography, and the adventures ahead.

  • Embracing the Unknown: A Leap into Life Beyond Autopilot

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    Elli

    Breaking away from the ordinary, it’s time to move forward and embrace a life of true discovery. When we decide to shed the weight of the past and dive headfirst into the unknown, we allow ourselves to truly live.

  • 10 Powerful Lessons I Learned from Letting Go of a Lifetime of Possessions

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    Elli

    As I prepared for a new chapter in my life, I found myself surrounded by years of accumulated belongings—each item carrying its own story. Purging my possessions to fit everything into a car was both daunting and incredibly liberating. Here are 10 powerful lessons I learned about letting go, minimalism,…

  • It’s Not Goodbye, It’s See You Later: Leaving My Chosen Family

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    Elli

    As I sit in my almost empty house, the reality of saying ‘see you later’ to the friends I’ve made over the past 30 years is hitting me. Leaving the people who have supported and loved me through everything is harder than I expected, but I know our paths will…

  • To the Naysayers: A Reflection on Following My Own Path

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    Elli

    I’ve heard it all. “Are you sure this is the right decision?” “What if it doesn’t work out?” “But aren’t you worried about leaving everything behind?” These are the questions I’ve been asked repeatedly since I decided to leave my stable, comfortable life and step into something unknown. And while…

  • Why Shaking Things Up Is Essential for Growth and the Soul

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    Elli

    Changing things up—whether it’s changing careers, moving to a new city, or simply shifting our mindset—forces us to confront the parts of ourselves that need attention. It’s not always easy, and it’s definitely not always comfortable. But it’s in those moments of discomfort that we learn the most about who…

  • Letting Go: The Emotional Journey Behind Purging My Possessions

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    Elli

    As I wrap up my yard sale, I reflect on why letting go of things is so difficult. Whether it’s a scarcity mindset or emotional attachments, the act of purging has been unexpectedly freeing.

  • Facing Anxiety During Major Life Changes: How to Embrace the Fear and Move Forward

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    Elli

    Change can be exhilarating, but it also brings anxiety and uncertainty. In this post, I share my experience of facing the anxiety of major life changes and how we can embrace it instead of letting it hold us back.

  • Why It Is Hard to Choose Yourself: Breaking Free from a Lifetime of CPTSD

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    Elli

    After a lifetime of abuse and CPTSD, learning to choose yourself can feel terrifying and guilt-inducing. This post explores the psychology behind reclaiming your autonomy and why putting your own needs first is essential for healing.